You and sis-Amelia, get past the main gate with the access card, you look around and find a nice spot to hide behind the main entrance/exit were you can clearly see people come and go. Amelia suggests that you should just shift into somebody else but you explain that doing so will leave you with the original owner of the body trapped in your old body to deal with, and that it would ultimately be less hassle just to merge. She suggests that if you much merge you should keep all their knowledge of fashion and "girl" things cause you most certainly lack such knowledge. You find it hard to argue with her reasoning.