Giving into your urges, you take the intiative. You go up and become top in your relationship!
Also you decide pace for your first peentration! You slowly lower yourself until it reaches a point, when it hurts. You go back up when, letting the men below you edge several times. When your pussy is stretched and wet enough, and your clitoris grew, so it touches his dick when entered, you lower yourself again. You force your man to make you come!