You couldn't believe this, she gave you your mother's clothes that she wore when pregnant. You knew that looked too big for Lindsey! "Sorry sis/mom, but it's all in the words, the deal was we'd give each other clothes if we each chose the other's outfit, nothing in there that says it has to be my clothes I choose. I can still give you some goth clothes, but I don't really think they'd be your style now, and I don't think they make gothy sweatpants."